 Many of you might have watched the movie Dangal (Wrestling - For those you didn't or doesn't understand Hindi read the plot section in https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dangal_(film). Most of you might get all excited with this movie because it talks about Nationality, Gender Equality, Indian Sports System, Physique Transformation, Girl Power etc… But all this may provoke your negativity as that is what media talks most of the time, which you are attached to because that is what you see and hear most of the time. However, there is a positive lesson which was shown through out the movie which I think is missed out by majority of the people. i.e “How important is it to have a positive coach”. And I am really sure the media doesn't talk about it so most of you might have this one. Now a days no one want to take guidance, everyone want to live their own life in their own terms. However, see all the great people they always had mentor or coach. If you want greatness, a coach involvement is necessary, Kings had Ministers, Athletes had Coach, The Greats have Mentors. Do you really think you are going to achieve your greatness all by yourself. Nope. Think about it.
How many of you have a mentor who has actually experienced what you want to achieve. Very few!!!!! Find them and take guidance, doesn’t mean that they have to living people, it could also be a person in the past who succeed in the same field that you want to achieve greatness in. Study them. This also could be great religious text who also works in the form of divine mentors. But first you have to look for them, only when you search you will find them or who knows they will come towards you when you are ready. As the saying goes “The treasure is only for the searchers” . Now a days we all run aways from Coach and their guidance, thinking we will lose all the freedom however greatness can never be achieved will all the freedom. Some take coaching from people who misguided them who are who have failed in that field like friends, seniors, parents etc. For a youth, free coaching is the most is expensive coaching to life, because it always given by failures who don't know how to succeed. Basically, taking coaching from other people is only going to take to other people’s level to achievement. In the movie, Geeta had two coach one her father who looked negative but gave her positive results and got the Gold for India… But the NSA coach which looked positive but gave her a negative results and she also would have ended up as a coach. So we all have to be very careful and see what is true intention of your coach or mentor also and their experience and achievement. Coach can destroy or create a great person, however without a coach you can live a life but not a life of greatness. Always remember one thing, some things which our two eyes cannot see, for that you need a coach’s eye. Lastly, the movie concluded with a showing gratitude to you coach your coach, where Geeta Phogatpawansaroha & Babita Phogat, who are great living example of this message. The whole movie talk about a coaching and I am sure majority of you have missed that part because we are always attracted to something else in the movie. Never see a movie for entertainment, always see a movie to see what it is trying to teach you to take you life to the next level. Or else you have just wasted your 2 to 3 hours doing nothing. However if you learn something the time is well used and it becomes positive. Life is all Positive.. Serving the Youth by Infusing Positive - Deek Parassini Like & Turn on Page Notification on facebook.com/Deekparassini Follow & Turn On Notification on instagram.com/DeekParassini Be Part of Whatsapp Group : saiddeek.com/deek-on-whatsapp.html  Doing the same thing again and again is not going to give you a different result.
So Today, or I would say Now, make a new positive plan for next year so you get a better and positive result and start taking action NOW and not tomorrow. Then tomorrow wish everyone a Positive New Year. Wishing the same old plan is just a waste of time because there is nothing new in it. New year is not just a number change from 2016 to 2017. The whole world is changing and how much change do you plan to bring is the question you should ask yourself? Make a new plan for it and then call it a new year - Wish you all a Positive New Year. And my plan is to post one message every day to this group. So I can call it a Positive New Year. Is your New Year really New ?? If not, make it New and then wish people a Positive New Year. Let the message of Positivity Spread. Life is All Positive Life 😊- Deek Parassini Like & Turn on Page Notification on facebook.com/Deekparassini Follow & Turn On Notification on instagram.com/DeekParassini Meet Deek : DeekParassini.com Be Part of Whatsapp Group : saiddeek.com/deek-on-whatsapp.html  Note : For people who don't celebrate Diwali, just try to take the essence of light from this article.
A Positive Diwali to All!!!! Why not we celebrate Diwali everyday. Diwali also known the festival of lights celebrated every year and signifies the victory of light over darkness, good over evil and knowledge over ignorance. I would say it is victory over Positivity over negativity. The main significance is victory of light over darkness, where during Diwali, we are welcoming light (positivity, good, knowledge) into our life by lighting lamp all around our homes. But the question which I have is, how many of you celebrate it everyday? Now you would be thinking, how can we do it everyday? Very few people are welcoming this light into your homes or into your life. This light can creates so much positive energy which you are unknown of...  Are you really using the Alphabets to make your life positive. Do you think we learn Alphabets for talking? Or is it for reading or is it for both? Now after you read this article your answer might change.
 Positive Independence Day to Indians. Today I had the below chat with with "An Saffron" and because of her I am writing this article. Thank you Saffron for brining this topic. I am not here to offend anyone and if you feels bad about it, I apologise and please ignore this article. I am just writing this article for the people who just want to get their independence from negativity. For those who are not from India just read this article from your own county's perspective.
The Chat between Deek & An Saffron (AS) AS : so lets celebrate positively...its time to remind all sacrifices n struggles to obtain this..also b strong enf to devlp our country more..  Music is one things we listen to when we want to relax or have a break or to feel good. May be music is relaxing your mind but ever thought if that music is really relaxing your heart? Right now people just want to get a quick mind relaxation by listening to any kind of music that is thrown at your by Tv, radio etc but they ignore the effects the song lyrics brings to their heart which also creates their future. Also how some lyrics on constant listening taken it from the conscious mind to your subconscious mind which makes it very difficult for you to change and that would end of influence you life.
So does music bring a positive effect or a negative one?  Lately many people have said that they are over-attached to smoking and want to take a positive step to get out of it. What do you feel when you see the above pictures? Do you feeling like smoking?
So first question you would ask is how to get out of smoking? Forget this question right now. Let us put focus on how did you getting into smoking in the first place. When did you first come in contact with the negative energy of smoking. Generally, It would be a person or a group of people who introduced you into it or a situation which you are put in that make you to take that step. Look back to your past and check when did you first put a cigarette into your mouth. Who were around you and what situation were you going through?  Some parents would ask : Why is the current generation are crazy for something or person? Why don't they understand us and our system? Why are they always into mobile, laptops etc? Why do they have so many friends? Is it really a generation gap? I started thinking to write about Parent’s over-attachment to children but the the article ended up .. Over-attachment created during Childhood. This article are only applicable for some or if i hurt anyones feeling just consider this this article is not for them.
 Why parents get involved in my life? Why don't they understand me? Why don't parents give me space and allow me to take my own decision? Why don't i get the freedom? If that is the question in your mind, read this article. Because they are over-attached but this article is not for them, it is for you and you need to know more about them and their over-attachment.....
 Hope you have read Part 1 & checked your daily sugar intakes.
Using my Business Psychology Experience !!! seems like there is a big fight between SUGAR and FAT in the minds of the people because companies are selling that concept to you. Right now everyone is buying Low Fat product and the companies are selling it at a premium and converting those fats to a separate products and making money out of that also. For example :  I have been writing about positive relationship and today was thinking about writing about Parents. But some of you have asked why am I not writing about other major aspects of Positive Life i.e. Relationship, Health, Finance, Education & Spirituality. So today I have decided to talk about Positive Health, the next aspect to Positive living.
For Positive Health you have to eat Positive Food. If someone asks me to pick one of the main negativity in our food, I would pick our Sugar intakes. In the current world, our bodies are going through Sugar Tsunami 🍭🌊and I will tell you how!!!!  Friends, Friends, Friends!!!! It’s a relationship that we think is forever, a relationship which we stand by and fight for and a relationship which we think that makes us complete. But the question I have for you… Is it creating a positive impact or a negative impact in your life???? I know you might be thinking what I am talking about and reading this article might clear that doubt.
 What happens if I am over-attached to my Lover (Bf/Gf) ??? Why do my lover ignore me? Is this really love? Why does a lover cheat me? What do i do after breakup.. If these are the questions in your mind. Read below to know the answers. You might not get a straight solution but this article has the answer to all these questions....
Generally when you love someone, there are chance that it could be just an infatuation. Love and infatuation are both intense emotions that one feel for another person however often confused by many people. First things you need to know is, there is a big difference between Infatuation and Love. Knowing the difference itself would save you from a lot of relationship issues. Reading this article might breakup things but life is always positive if we live by the truth (Love) and not a illusion (infatuation)  I think this topic which I am going to share is slightly complicated😊. So if you have any doubts please leave your comments below.
As humans, we all are attached to something or the other, which is fine but there are somethings we get "over-attached to" which would create a major impact on our lives. Today, I will tell you more about "over-attachment' and how it is really consuming your positive energy for it’s own survival.  How often do you compare yourself with others? Do you look at the mirror and ask why do I have small nose or lips, count the pimples on your face, complain about your figure etc etc etc… the questions like these just goes on!!!!
Have you ever thought how do these questions come into your mind, in the first place? It’s simple!!!! There is a standard which is set in your mind to which you are constantly comparing yourself to. These standards are something that your surroundings have just conditioned your mind to believe that one is right and other is wrong. What if everyone in the world had pimples on the face? I am sure the world would have a competition to find who had the best pimpled face😊 Think About it!!!!!!!!! Let me give you an example....  Before I get into today’s article, Let us consider a human’s life starts when he is born and ends when he dies, with a typical life span of 80 years :)
Now I have a question, Does "Present" really exist or is it just that moment which we call as "Present"?  I was thinking of writing an article on a different topic however today I had an opportunity to meet my 8th grade class teacher after 20 years which was really a special moment!!!!!
Let me ask you a question!!! When did you last visit your school? Or your college? to meet the teachers who had taught you?  When you see this quote, you might be wondering what is the difference between “Good at Listening” and “A Good Listener”. If I ask a question, Are you good at listening? You would say “YES” which is correct. But If I ask, are you a good listener? What is your answer and how true is it?
Few months ago, I went for a seminar on Business Psychology and the audience were asked, “Who all are good listeners?”. I was shocked to see that everyone raised their hands. Seriously, “Is everyone in that audience good listeners?” Kept me thinking!! I guess they didn't actually understand the question correctly. :) however I think most of them raised their hands just as a reply to the question, which was “YES”  You would have heard the saying that “Laughter is the best medicine”
But I have a question, Do we take this medication in the correct way, time and quantity? Does this medicine have any side-effects?? Think About it!!! Doctors always say that medicines should be taken as per the prescription or else it would delay the cure or have side-effects. But the problem is that when people know something is good they always tend to overdo it.  What do you think? Do we have to strive for greatness or goodness? Is it really worth being great or is it better to be good? Or is there a real difference between them?
We tell our children to be a great person when they grow up but do they really lose out in other areas of life. |
