by Lalitha Parimala : For me i think i am over attached to my mobile...I don't chat or do something else but I simply check updates n pics! I always carry it with me and just check it every now n then! I don't know wen it became a habit for me! Without my mob in my hand i couldn't think of anything else! Can you please suggest me anything 4 this ?
Deek's Reply :
When it comes to mobile, its never the mobile that people are over-attached to, it what they get out of it....
You had mentioned that over-attached to checking peoples updates and pictures. Now a day people are soo involved in what others are doing and spend all their energy in trying to know about others. Now what happens here is that you tend to compare your life with other and talk "Oh they did this or they did that" and then you share that with a couple friends and then to tend to say "Oh he/she is so lucky" and it goes on. Then this discussion become an entertainment, but what you don't realise is that you tend to forget to enjoy your own life. Instead you find satisfaction in what other are doing. You have start focusing more on your life and your family .. go to place, do something special, click pics of your life so that you could enjoy the pic later not to show to someone else. Live your life instead of discussing about someone else's life. Look at your self and enjoy it and slowly you wont have time to see pics and updates of others.. It will start boring you when you start getting busy living your life... 😀
Now let talk about what happens to your positive energy... the more you talk and discuss about them the more your positive energy follows to them and they will enjoy their life more. So stop and preserve you positive energy and use it for your life and live a positive life.
Now next question you will ask, how to control it. It's very simple. Just unfollow the your friends who you really want to know updates about, I am not saying unfriend, just unfollow and when needed just visit their profiles to check their updated. Unfollowing them, their pics and updated will stop coming into your news feeds and by doing this, your constant checking of fb will stop automatically. Try this it really works.
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